I have been observing more closely if there are microagressions that
happen in the school or other places where I work. I didn’t observed many microagressions,
although I think they are more common among adults than between an adult and
children. This week one teacher make the following comment to another teacher “why
do you open the school door so early, you make us look unorganized.” She was implying
that the teacher was unorganized and the tone of the comment was pretty aggressive.
I felt insulted and I think the comment was out of line. I knew the
teacher who received the aggression felt very uncomfortable and attacked. I
wish I could have an answer for this teacher who is constantly very aggressive
with other teacers.
My observation this week has made more aware of people’s feelings and
the way to treat people and children. I understood more people reactions and I
tried to find solutions to their necessities without making inappropriate
comments.
I think you made a very good point that microaggressions are possibly more common in adult to adult interactions than in adult to child interactions. I also didn't hear any instances of microaggression directed at children. It is really important to think about what you are trying to accomplish before you make a comment. Delivery is everything.
ResponderEliminarHi Amelia
ResponderEliminarIf I were the teacher, I would also feel insulted and upset especially this comment comes from a teacher who supposes to know that this act can have bad impact on other. I also agree with you that this assignment and the readings of this week has made us more aware of the importance of treating people with respect and avoid making any comment that may insult or hurt their feeling.